Grow a Pear Lyrics Meaning

It seems she's just singing about a man who isn't her definition of "manly" but the line "I just can't date a dude with a vag" is not only trans phobic, but also mildly internally sexist, as if saying that, in this case, wanting an emotional connection rather than just sex is inherently feminine and automatically bad, but also perpetuating this idea that men only want sex.

All in all, I just think it is a bad lyric in an otherwise decent song